Most of the time, people make decisions based on huge aspects, based on solid big reasons or effort.
I make decisions by observation. I notice the little little things people do or dont do. This drives me to make my decision or choice.
And now over time, I noticed the little things, and I have subconsciously been driven to make my choice.
I'm a very observant person. I'm very aware of my surroundings, I have this thing where I know what people are thinking.
I know what they are thinking I know what they are feeling. And I'm usually right. Some people, I see right through them.
So even when I don't say or voice out anything, it doesnt mean I'm oblivious. I know. I know what is going on.

So I make my decisions like sussing out a person's character, not by the bold gestures he/she has done.
Not by the declaration of love in front of everyone else, not by bouquet after bouquet of flowers sent to me.
When I'm talking about little things, I mean things like, a random single stalk of flower. Someone who never spoke to you says hi.
Someone sends you a text out of nowhere, and asks you how are you, out of pure concern, not with a motive or malice.

Little things like that.

I cannot emphasise more on how important little things are.

I cannot.